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LIKE MOTHER, LIKE DAUGHTER
In Matters of Health, They
Won’t Settle for Second Best

Dr. Arlene Wildstein and daughter Caryl Cohen
advocate that patients gather enough knowledge
about their options to make the best
healthcare decisions.
By Patrice Dickey
Attorney
Caryl Cohen was raised in a medical family and is married to
infectious disease specialist Howard J. Cohen, MD. Her father
Walter Wildstein, MD is a retired general surgeon and her mother Dr.
Arlene Wildstein is a clinical psychologist.
Their
breadth of knowledge and connections within the medical community
taught Caryl and Arlene that sometimes the doctor actually doesn’t
know best.
Caryl’s
Quest
A busy,
active mother of three sons, 48-year-old Caryl discovered a huge
lump in her lower abdomen a few years ago. Her longtime
gynecologist confirmed that it was a fibroid tumor the size of a
five-month pregnancy and told her she’d need a hysterectomy. He
also told her the size of the fibroid dictated an open abdominal
surgery.
“I was
extremely upset with this news,” said Caryl. “The idea of being out
of commission for four to six weeks was out of the question. When
could I possibly fit this in?”
Although
the term ‘bikini incision’ related to open surgery sounds relatively
benign, the old-style open procedure involves cutting through muscle
and nerves and prying back the abdominal muscles to visualize the
area. It can cause painful nerve damage that takes months to heal.
“My doctor
led me to believe it was too big to remove any other way,” said Caryl.
Luckily,
her network of friends included surgical nurse Wendy Winer, who told
her that her associate Dr. Tom Lyons of the Center for Women’s Care
& Reproductive Surgery routinely performed Laparoscopic
Supracervical Hysterectomy (LSH) and myomectomy (removal of the
fibroid only) on extremely large fibroids. In fact, he invented the
LSH procedure in 1990 and has performed hundreds of them
successfully.
“I cannot
tell you the relief I felt—that I could have this taken care of in a
brief time with a quick recovery. The pity is that so many women
are in this situation and don’t realize they have a minimally
invasive option!” she exclaimed.
Importantly, LSH leaves the cervix intact as a keystone support to
the female anatomy, which improves sexual function post-surgery and
helps prevent pelvic prolapse later.
Caryl had
to go out of network but stated, “Insurance was not an issue because
I knew I wanted the best treatment. I’m accustomed to top medical
care and I wouldn’t settle for less. It’s a question of values, and
I’m worth it.”
Within a
week after the procedure Caryl was back riding bikes with her sons,
and feeling incredible gratitude for Dr. Lyons, surgical assistant
Wendy Winer, RN, CNOR, and staff.
The LSH
procedure has been practiced since 1990, and Dr. Lyons has trained
hundreds of surgeons around the world on the technique. However,
everyone is not capable of performing it. Some surgeons refuse to
do laparoscopic procedures on a large uterus. The size of the
problem is not an issue for Dr. Lyons.
“It’s
especially important that patients choose a surgeon who is
experienced in working with lasers and laparoscopy. LSH requires
more skill than open abdominal hysterectomy. LSH is easier on the
patient, but more challenging for the surgeon,” explained Dr.
Lyons.
The
Mother’s Experience
Dr. Arlene
Wildstein like her daughter is a highly intelligent, no-nonsense
woman. Over approximately three years of worsening urinary
incontinence, she was told by a series of GYNs that there was
nothing wrong.
While
working with a trainer before knee surgery, she experienced bladder
prolapse. A local female urologist told her that in Atlanta, the
only way to fix this problem was through abdominal surgery.
“I knew
her information was totally erroneous,” she said.
Talking
with Caryl about Dr. Lyons, she also scheduled an appointment. Her
laparoscopic Burch procedure (also developed by Dr. Lyons) and
pelvic floor repair occurred in February 2004, a few months before
Caryl’s LSH.
“Piece of
cake! Unbelievable!” she described it. “I got up with no pain and
wanted to go home. I never took a painkiller; I needed no nursing
care.”
She
advises others not to believe everything they hear on their first or
even second medical opinion.
“People
don’t do enough investigation. They need to be their own advocates
to get beyond the misinformation,” she said.
One
thing to be aware of: many surgeons will attempt a laparoscopic
procedure and feel it necessary to convert to an open surgery with a
long incision during the procedure. Make sure to ask your surgeon
about his or her conversion ratio. Dr. Lyons’ conversion ratio is
less than one percent.
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This page last updated
08/17/2009
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